And phone calling is much, much more energy than a text. One day I knew she was going to be busy, as was I, so all I sent her was a text to say “good morning.” The next day, she texted me asking why she hadn’t heard anything from me and if everything was okay. I got way more important things to do than to worry about carrying on a virtual conversation. Have a great week and thanks for stopping by (: Sounds like you are a great communicator Max. Also, in the evenings I devote my time to God and my family first and my community and my friends second. Now, I’m thinking that he might be thinking that I am no longer interested in the product he is endorsing me. Thanks for any input. I think it depends on how often it happens. I do NOT carry my phone everywhere. She ended the phone conversation by saying she had something to do and would text me later. Most of this comes down to a lack of respect, care and our consumer society. But when I get messages from the very people who I talk with, I don’t reply.. not because I’m egoistic,mean or don’t value them.. I’m glad you asked. He never got in touch at all through out the 30 days. I commented once at a family gathering stating the same and the response I got was “well everyone does it nowadays” and I was shocked at how no one cared about what I said, I don’t even think they really understood my point. But I also understand if someone can’t respond because life can be quite hectic and busy for many people. Besides if someone really liked you or wanted to communicate with you they would show up in person, and not send a juvenile text. BORED. 5. Honesty is a dying thing, gosh…, Not getting back to someone by text, email, phone, mail in a timely manner shows a huge lack of respect and dependability. That’s how I feel with my “friend”. I totally agree!! If you haven't seen the 1998 romantic comedy You've Got Mail, you really should. Just like certain face to face situations, starting a text conversation…. amzn_assoc_title = "Timeless Classics"; © 2012-2020 Growth Guided, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Maybe the other person will pick it up if they find any importance in it. If someone couldn’t talk on the phone because they were at the dentist, or on public transport, and they could only text, would that still annoy you? (: In the end, there was no reward. If our conversation is more then a couple of quick questions we make arrangements to talk on the phone or go for coffee. But they don’t. All sorts of “what ifs” start running through your head. As a communicator I ask myself that question over and over, one of my first bosses taught me that you always respond an email, a message or a call. amzn_assoc_title = "My Amazon Picks"; This shows that this society have literally taken the basic values away. OmG The same and shes always like sorry I didn’t see your messages. Plus, I got to keep the upper hand. Cell phones are used mainly for personal texting, rather than working. They may think they are actually saving both parties time and effort by not replying, because they expect the sender to pick up the vibe. We keep putting ourselves into these positions of having to react, respond, take action, to someone trying to get our attention or communicate to us. I have to admit, I kind of liked her attention and interest in me, although it was hard to gauge her level of interest through text messaging alone. Ooops! If someone HAS the time of day to read your message it literally takes 10 seconds to send a response. As other people have mentioned most people have their phones in plain view of them. If your dealing with a person who is a narsisit, this could be a reason. Angie, im so glad im not your “friend” thats if you have any?. I recommend anyone to try avoiding text during day (unless meeting with someone specifically). Yօʊ sօʊռɖ stʊċҡ ʊք… Maʏɮɛ ʊ sɦօʊʟɖռ’t ɢɨʋɛ քքʟ ʊʀ # ɨʄ ʊ ɖօռ’t աaռt tօ ɮɛ ɮօtɦɛʀɛɖ ɮʏ tɦɛʍ… Iʝs ..ɨռstɛaɖ օʄ քʊttɨռɢ ɦɛʀ օռ a ɮaċҡ ɮʊʀռɛʀ ʊ sɦօʊʟɖ ʝʊst ɛxքʟaɨռ tօ ɦɛʀ ʊ ɦaʋɛ ɛռօʊɢɦ ċʟօsɛ ʄʀɨɛռɖs atʍ ռɖ ɖօռ’t ռɛɛɖ aռʏʍօʀɛ at tɦɨs tɨʍɛ. Anyone who comes back with the usual predictable defensive comments like ‘lighten up’ etc probably fell into that immature, frustrated pattern themselves. This can’t be emphasized enough. It’s not being cared about but being potentially kept around for uses you might provide in the future. If someone does not want to speak to me on the phone, they are not worth my time period. We all got lives and hobbies ya know? Have fun! I have a friend who does that. If they are not a texter (usually they’re in a committed relationship and you’re trying to be friends, they’re working, or have kids) then when you believe they have a free moment after a few days (few is 3 not 2) call them and ask them to hangout or whatever you want from them. 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